One of the greatest things that having an open marriage has given us is the freedom to explore our sexual identities. Neither me or my SO have ever been hetero normative. I’m the kind of queer that sets people’s gaydar off from three counties over. She’s more passing, but she’s also much more hardcore than I am; if she decides that she’s coming out, then everybody is going to know about it, no exceptions.
September 21, 2013